Lost 21kgs and 19.16% of her body weight

Since high school I’ve had additional weight, with fluctuations across the years, but gradually piling on until I was almost 110kg. I was an emotional eater, stress eater, binge eater, there’s (almost) nothing I wouldn’t scarf down at top speed. Any excuse to have a cake, a drink, chocolate…you know the deal. I saw family members struggle with their weight and try every diet known to man, and did not want to be like that, so I just ignored my own weight and ate whatever I wanted.

Then arthritis arrived, and I became less able to do stuff, everyday chores became difficult, and walking my dog almost impossible. In March last year I had a hip replacement and felt so much better mentally and physically. It really changed my life in a great way. I could walk again, I was pain-free, and I realised how much of a toll the pain had taken on me in every way. Not long after I’d recovered from surgery, I saw two things – a photo of me with my sister – I looked terrible, old, fat, a disaster and a post on Facebook by a Healthies member I’d met at a friend’s wedding. She’d lost 8kg in 8 weeks, and I was so taken with her story, and disgusted with my own photo, that I clicked the link to contact Healthy Inspirations and so began my new life!

My first appointment was eye-opening, but I was so inspired by that Facebook post and absolutely determined that I could do this. And the team at Healthies were very supportive and non-judgemental, it was really a pivotal moment.

I stuck diligently to the eating plan, filled in my food journal and attended my weekly nutrition check-in appointments, did the circuit at Healthies, walked and found the weight started to go immediately. My clothes were getting looser, my energy levels increased, people started noticing, and I was so happy! I felt in control and nothing could deter me. My first hurdle was getting under 100kg, then under 90kg, then to 86kg. It was amazing to me that just a few, not-too-hard diet tweaks could make such a difference.

It has been over 12 months now, and while I haven’t yet reached the magical 80kg mark, I’m pretty happy to be hovering around 86-88kg for now. I’m still an emotional eater, I admit to having chocolate about once a week, and the odd drink or two, but I definitely have more willpower and a different mindset. Walking, pilates, breathing, squats while brushing my teeth, and podcasts really help take my mind away from binging the bad stuff.

I’ve learnt a whole new way of shopping, cooking, and eating. Healthies has new recipes each week, and I love to try them out. I’m no longer anxious about taking up space, being a spectacle, or being invisible. I feel ‘normal’ and ready for new adventures!

Some things that have really worked for me are:

  1. Meal prepping – every weekend I cook 2 or 3 meals (curries, soups, casseroles) and freeze some for the following week. This takes the decision making away during the week and makes eating well very easy.
  2. Keeping track of what I’m eating – writing it all down really helps me to see where I’m at and explains the losses/gains at my weekly check in. I am not so hardcore these days, I have a few slip ups, but I can see why and understand that those are my choices.
  3. Self-talk – I try to talk to myself like I would a friend. This is not easy, no one is harder on me than me! But I try to go a bit easier on myself. I’m not trying to impress anyone else; I just want to feel better and be comfortable with myself – which I finally am.